parting
leaving
moving away
we are all individuals
living our dance
on this earth
we may feel close to others
for a time
but that will change
we can only really live
our own lives
and share it with others
as we inevitably
spend time apart
we can see it
as time to explore new avenues
which we can share
when we return
depths will be found
as we allow ourselves
time apart
to respect ourselves
to forge bonds
with ourselves
leaving a child
to manage on their own
can support and nourish them
can strengthen their internal ability
to stand up for themselves
to say I can do this!
and the parent
also has their courage tested
leaving their child
trusting them
trusting that those around
will care for their precious one
the parent finds
they are required
to withstand
the painful stretching
of those bonds
almost to breaking point
but which when required
will be found to have strengthened
and thickened
allowing even faster
and more significant
rebound
let's celebrate our soulful dance
this interweaving
this interlocking puzzle
together we are an amazing picture
of so many beings
connecting apart
Love,
Jazzy Jack
Art by Mr Actor
Really beautiful and I can relate too. I'm an introvert who really likes her own space (both physical and mental)... which is hard when you have two young children. So we're working on figuring all this out too.. how to get everyone's needs met and live together.
ReplyDeleteHow well you have expressed your feelings and ideas in words and even the shape of your poem. Mr Artist's artwork is ideal to go with it. We can relate to what you are saying and thank you for sharing it. D&M xxxx
ReplyDeleteThis is a wonderful poem and so aptly put. Yes, yes, yes, letting the children have time alone to develop and strengthen those bonds!!!Xx
ReplyDeleteAnd I relate so much to needing time alone!x
ReplyDeletegorgeous poem!!! and so true! we need to let go to find happyness! its hard sometimes - but if we gather the courage to do so - its sooo rewarding. as you´r experiencing right now!
ReplyDeleteand i really need one day a week to be alone! no telefone, no visitors, no tasks or chores. if i cant have that day for a while i start to get nervous.....
xxxxxx
I agree with you. We all need both - time alone and time bonding. This is how we are in my family - we all have a very strong need to be alone, and yet we love being together or even simply doing things next to each other, it is also somehow very nourishing.
ReplyDeleteps Do check out my new Write and Link "no rules" rules - I think you'll like it. I hope you can join in with your poems!